Tuesday, April 12, 2005

How do you move on from this?

I'm going through a rough time right now. Someone who has claimed to be my best friend for the last 10 years has completely turned on me. She has been sending me nasty emails and claiming that I am the horrible one.
It was easy to let it all go in one ear and out the other, since I am willing to move on and get away from her, but yesterday I got an email saying how annoying I was that I talked about not being able to have a baby. That hurts, because I don't bring that up; I talk about how things are going with that when people ask me. Mostly because I try not to think too much about it myself. So when she says that my talking about it annoyed her but she listened anyway because she was my friend, that really hurts, since I know that I wouldn't have brought the subject up.

I don't know what to do. I'd like to be the bigger person and just ignore her, but there's a part of me that wants to tell her off before I get her out of my life. Part of it is a desire to not let her get the last word, which I know is so petty. I hate feeling this way. I am so glad I've got other friends and I'm not desperate to keep her in my life.

1 comment:

Dandurands' said...

I would be putting her e-mail address on the blocked list. Is this the only way she communicates with you is e-mail? Not big enough to do in person?
About wanting to get the last word in or telling her off, try not to let it get you to that level. I see nothing wrong with sending her an e-mail & letting your feelings out & telling her not to contact you anymore.